Relationship Advice From Long Island New York - Enjoy Your 20's NOW Before They Are Gone!
Time and time again, I see young women and men in their 20's pursuing people that do not have an interest in them. Why do you do this?
I have a teenage son and I'm always telling him to not lower his standards and chase after someone that is not into you. No, he has never done this and I try to instill in him not to.
The 20's is a great time in your life. You are still learning about yourself. Concentrate on you. Go out into that world and seize every opportunity out there. Find out what makes you tick. Live at home with your parents for as long as they let you and save money. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to buy your first home without having to do it with someone else? Don't wait for that right person to come along because they may not come along until you are well into your 30's. You just never know.
When someone has no interest in you, move on. There is a cover for every pot so what is the rush to get married and have kids? When you get married life changes. When you have kids, life changes even more. It's not about you anymore at that point.
Take advantage of going to college and work on your career. Without and education it will be harder to support yourself. Why rely on someone else to take care of you? Take charge and take care of yourself. Life has no guarantees. You get married, have kids and 50% of the population gets divorced. What then? A lot of women end up at dead-end jobs after divorce because they never educated themselves in the first place. Why put yourself in that position? Staying married forever is not promised to us. It takes a lot of hard work to make a marriage solid. Choose that person that you want to spend the rest of your life with wisely.
If you are in a realtionship now that is going nowhere, get out of it. Why stay with that person if there is no real futue together? Do not lower your standards. You are better than that!
When you are not in a rush to get married and concentrate on yourself for a while, the rest will come. It will happen when you least expect it.
Make 2010 the year about you. Follow your dreams and you will be happier for it.
Happy New Year!
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